Comments on: When Your Emotions Are Running Away With You

By: Amanda Linehan

Amanda Linehan — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 00:31:54 +0000

Hi Karen – Thanks for your comment I think you used the right word when you said “pressure.” When our emotions get out of control it does feel as if we might explode. Giving your mind a rest lets some of that pressure out!

By: Karen Chaffee

Karen Chaffee — Tue, 14 Apr 2009 19:36:58 +0000

Hello Amanda

Like you, when I feel my emotions running toward “out-of-control mode,” I take the time to do something physical: clean the kitchen, walk for a few minutes, stretch.

The focus on the physical seems to take the building pressure off the mind.

By: Amanda Linehan

Amanda Linehan — Mon, 13 Apr 2009 23:07:17 +0000

Hi Tom – Oh yes, definitely. Thanks for mentioning “writing.” It’s a great way to sort out and untangle your feelings – I use it a lot when I start to feel overwhelmed. Negative emotions are difficult because they feel so strong in the moment, but you are right…they always pass. Thanks for your comment!

By: Tom Maurer | Simple and Spiritual

Tom Maurer | Simple and Spiritual — Mon, 13 Apr 2009 02:41:18 +0000

I like to write about what I'm feeling. Putting my emotions down on paper is somehow therapeutic. Then I tell myself to relax because the negativity will pass (it always does) Tom Maurer | Simple and Spiritual’s last blog post..The World Isn’t Out To Get You

By: Amanda Linehan

Amanda Linehan — Sun, 12 Apr 2009 02:03:02 +0000

Hi Tess – Physical activity does wonders for our emotions. It always seems to put me in a better place.

By: Tess The Bold Life

Tess The Bold Life — Sat, 11 Apr 2009 16:29:45 +0000

I journal and get my feelings and thoughts on paper. I also will go out for a run. There's always an alternative way of feeling that is better. The most important thing is feeling good. I want to stay there. Tess The Bold Life’s last blog post..A Bold but Modest Millionaire

By: Amanda Linehan

Amanda Linehan — Sat, 11 Apr 2009 14:55:27 +0000

Hi Chris – I really like your suggestion to “feel” your emotion in your body. That’s something that many of us don’t notice because we are too busy “spinning out stories.” Just taking that moment to realize that your emotions don’t have to take you over every time you have one is a life saver.

Hi Barbara – Thanks for your comment! I agree! It’s amazing how “short” I can feel when I’m tired (or simply haven’t been taking care of my body appropriately). Like Chris above, you’ve also mentioned how your body plays a role in emotions. Interesting.

By: Barbara Swafford

Barbara Swafford — Sat, 11 Apr 2009 00:10:42 +0000

Hi Amanda, Great question. When I feel "unwanted" emotions, my first question has now become "why?". For me, it's often because I'm tired. If that's the case, I'll make time to take a short power nap. I usually end up with a fresh attitude. I've also learned to communicate my emotions. If someone says something that hurts my feelings, I speak up and say so. Barbara Swafford’s last blog post..Give Your Readers What They Want

By: Chris Edgar | Purpose Power Coaching

Chris Edgar | Purpose Power Coaching — Fri, 10 Apr 2009 22:22:10 +0000

Hi Amanda — thanks for this post. One of the things I do is similar to the second thing you said, which is to notice how the emotion manifests in my body. If I’m feeling angry, for instance, that’s usually my lower back getting uncomfortably warm. When I look at it this way I realize that “anger” is just a name I give to that warmth, and that stops my mind from coming up with the kind of stories I think many of us end up spinning out when we’re feeling angry (“I’ve got to take revenge,” “this situation is unsafe,” and so on).